How to Ask Questions

(To Get the Help You Seek)

Coming up with questions to ask an intuitive can be a challenge. Doing so requires you to look inward and take inventory to figure out just where you want to receive help. Though this process may be challenging, it is essential that you formulate thoughtful, precise, and empowered questions to make the most of your reading.

Below are four guidelines to help you frame and focus your questions.

THE MORE SPECIFIC THE QUESTION, THE MORE SPECIFIC THE ANSWER.

A reading is a combination of my energy, your energy, and the universal energy that connects us. In other words, what you put into it, you will get back. So, don’t be vague. Take responsibility and be specific with your question.

Don’t ask this:
“What do you see in the areas of career and love?”

That sort of question is just too general for a precise answer and, furthermore, it reveals that you haven’t taken the time to look inward.

Instead, try asking this:
“What shifts can I make in my career to bring me the most growth?”

or this:
“How can I improve my relationship with (firstname)?”

Asking these sort of questions allows me to deliver accurate, detailed, and precise answers that empower you to take action. If you come to a reading with vague questions, I will end the session giving you the option to come up with new questions and reschedule.

THE LESS INFORMATION YOU GIVE TO ME, THE MORE INFORMATION I CAN GIVE TO YOU.

If you were to see a therapist, it would be helpful to tell them a lot about yourself. You’d share a lot of your backstory to paint a detailed picture of who you are and where you’re coming from.

A reading with an intuitive, however, is quite different. As an intuitive, I want to enter into our reading with a blank slate. I don’t want you to tell me about yourself. In fact, it is I who will be telling you about yourself.

When the reading begins, I will have already tuned into your energy with a half-page of written information about you. If this information resonates with you, then we’ll know that we’re a good fit.

So, when asking your questions, skip the backstory and just ask the question

THERE ARE NO “SHOULDS” OR “SHOULDN’TS”, ONLY ACTIONS AND CONSEQUENCES.

What you should or shouldn’t do is your choice. Asking me what you should do is asking for my opinion, and my opinion does not belong in a reading. The Universe has no opinion. It only responds to your energy.

If you are at a crossroads, tell me your options, and I’ll look into the consequences of each action. We’ll then explore your options so that you can use your free will to make an informed decision.

TURN “WHEN” QUESTIONS INTO EMPOWERING “HOW” QUESTIONS.

Asking questions that begin with “when” and “will” won’t actually get you what you want. Turn those “whens” and “wills” into “hows” and “what-can-I-dos” to get empowered and bring what you want into your life.

Don’t ask:
“When will I meet my soulmate?”

or:
“Will I ever meet my soulmate?”

Instead, ask:
“How can I attract my ideal mate/soulmate?”

or:
“What am I doing that is blocking me from manifesting a healthy relationship and what can I do to overcome it?”

Framing your questions with “how” or “what-can-I-do” sets you up to fix your current unhealthy patterns to attract/manifest the relationships you truly desire.